3 Online Dating Mistakes to Avoid
January 19, 2009 by Madeline
Filed under Dating Articles
by Tony Thomas
There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.
Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another…and that includes you, as well. If you expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements. The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.
Remember…don’t be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.
About the Author
Tony Thomas has been happily married since 1985.
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10 Online Dating Safety Tips You Should Never Forget
July 30, 2008 by JohnF
Filed under Dating Safety
by Dr. Date
It seems everyone is into online dating today. Years back it was taboo to say you had met that special someone over the Internet as today it’s become mainstream. Popular Internet dating sites like www.TheFitnessPersonals.com are making meeting that special someone increasingly easier. With this new medium for induction taking off with it comes some common sense and not so common sense rules to go by.Hear are my top 10:
1. Only meet your date when you are 100% ready. You got to feel comfortable first. Make sure your ‘gut’ agrees with you head.
2. Keep it public. First date should be in a public place like a coffee shop or restaurant.
3. Meet at the date location – meaning DO NOT meet at your dates place of residence or yours. If the date goes really well you’ll then have plenty of opportunity in the future to go there but not now.
4. Keep the date to a limit. Say 1 hour. That give you both plenty of time to get an idea if a connection exists plus it keeps the pressure off if one person can’t wait for the date to be over. Remember – if it goes well then the next date can always be longer.
5. Make a friend aware. Let a friend know that you are going on a date with a new person and let that friend know where you are going to be. Agree to call your friend after the date to let him/her know everything is ok.
6. Make sure to have your cell phone with you and fully charged.
7. Avoid alcohol.
8. Do not leave your drink or food unattended. You don’t know this person so don’t trust too much from the beginning.
9 . Remember your gut. If it tell you things are off be ready to listen to it and simply end the date and leave.
10. Make sure when the date is over that you are not being followed so you get home safely.
Relationships take time to build and trust is something that shouldn’t be given away in a matter of minutes, hours, or even days. Remember – follow your gut and you will know when it’s right to take your relationship to the next level.
About the Author
About Author
Dr. Date lives in South Florida and writes on topics that apply to both regular dating and online dating he is also a regular contributor to the blog of TheFitnessPersonals.com. He is in the process of writing a downloadable e-book targeting mens dating. That e-book should be released by the end of the summer.
Top 4 Dating Online Safety Tips
July 2, 2008 by JohnF
Filed under Dating Safety
Top 4 Dating Online Safety Tips by KV Chaudhary
One: You must pick your online dating site carefully. You need to make sure that you check them out thoroughly. Read everything you find and find out what other people are saying about that site.
It is important that you find a dating site online that is legitimate before you use them or before you give them any money for membership. With all of the choices available to you this is easy to do.
Two: Always think about your safety first. Keep your personal information private, for now. You can give out your name if you want to but don’t let people know what your address or phone number is.
You can decide to give that to them later if you have a budding romance with them. Otherwise, keep this information to yourself. Because dating online can be be exciting it is easy to forget this simple tip!
Three: Always be honest and always be you. When you are talking to someone on a dating site, you do not want to lie and you want to keep your profile honest too. You also don’t want to act like someone you are not.
If you do this all the time then you will eventually forget who were acting like with someone or what lies you have told. Then you’ll become known as someone who cannot be trusted. Trust is one of the most important things about internet dating, so always be honest and yourself.
Four: Be patient and persistent. You may not find yourself that perfect someone on the first date. So you move on until you do. It may take some time but if you are patient and persistent than you will eventually find someone special that you can have a relationship with.
There is no need to get in a rush and there is no need to give up quickly either because there are millions of people now involved with online dating. There is someone for you, but you just have to find them.
This is 4 dating online safety tips to keep in mind. Keep safety first, be honest, be patient, and look around for the right dating site before you join.
About the Author
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